steve: "Here is a bit of advice to those who seem to think this woman was selfish or a bad person. I think we all have contemplated it at one time or another? Suicides usually choose JR over other lines as 100kph trains thunder through the stations. They lose their self esteem completely and compound with bad the economy, two-thirds of the people in Japan has money worries and they are feeling helpless. A heavily pregnant mother-of-two jumped in front of a high speed train after discovering her unborn baby girl could have a facial deformity, a coroner heard. I personally think the whole 'ganbare' and 'I must not make a scene' are partially to blame. Loan compamies that are often yakuza-backed and will hound someone no end.) Rangers trade Kravtsov, waive Leschyshyn, Giants, Jets fans among most passionate in NFL: report, PIX11 talks with Adam Korsak ahead of NFL Combine, Moose on the Loose: New York basketball is fun again. "Why couldnt I help?" I think you completely missed the point of my 'taking it out on others' comment - I'm not referring to her killing herself, I am referring to her doing it in public, needlessly traumatizing so many others. She later made a number of phone calls, including one to her prospective employer and another 'fairly lengthy' call with her landlord, Hightown Housing Association. She had to have felt some pain there. It was an awful experience. Instead of complaining about a few delays to your business i would advise learning a bit about what goes through peoples minds at this time.the fact that someone would actually go through with the act says a lot. There are times when the person is such a low point that death seems the only option. DS Rees confirmed that such an arrangement had been agreed, before taking the hearing through the hours leading up to Ms Redmond's death. Describing CCTV footage showing the mother and daughter today, Assistant Coroner Ian Wade KC told Beaconsfield Coroner's Court: 'Sadly, what we can see is that she gathers Melsadie up in her arms and jumps carefully from the platform down to what is known as the forefoot and is then struck by the train.'. I always wonder if train jumpers are so frustrated w/ society, that this is their final, middle-finger salute. The NYPD spokeswoman could not confirm the identity or age of the woman who was killed, but did say that criminality is not suspected in the death. Was she a member of this community? The following service changes were implemented, according to the MTA: If you or somebody you know are having suicidal thoughts call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) or call 1-888-NYC-WELL (9355) to speak with a counselor. 'Selfish' is a description, not a judgement. 'Stop and think' is always good advice. The service is available 24 hours a day for people who are experiencing feelings of distress or despair, including those which may lead to suicide. The investigation into the woman's death is still ongoing, police told Patch. Our DIY expert, Beth Allen, founder of HIP Chicks (Home Improvement Project Chicks), knows which tools you need to take on big projects by yourself. If you have a communicable disease it can't be helped and you need to get treatment, but it doesn't excuse you if you intentionally infect others. Yeah, she was a big fail, wasn't she? This website and associated newspapers adhere to the Independent Press Standards Organisation's 'Had police been observing her, they would have approached her because of her behaviour.'. Antonia Paget For Mailonline All of you who said "she was selfish" knew her right? A Great Western Railway employee, Anna Bodja, who witnessed the tragic death, said: 'I heard the fast train approaching, I heard the announcement and I saw the announcement on the board. i pity those who commit suicide though it may be selfish to others but yeah, they are not in a sound mind to think about that. over 100 people off themselves everyday, many use trains. In a moving tribute, her husband JudeYabani told an inquest: 'I will never regret having her in my life.'. The only selfish people are those who criticised this poor woman.Please show her and her family some respect. The 27-year-old was seen with her daughter Melsadie Adella-Rae Parris at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019 for one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. (Thanks to Ben Orlove for the tip.) There is a good deal of toing and froing.'. At 6.30am that morning, at which time Melsadie was with her father Leroy Parris, Ms Redmond had checked her bank balance at a garage. 7 train at the 40th Street-Lowery Street station in Sunnyside around 4:15 a.m., cops said. No counseling available in this country? contact the editor here. 1. If you've been impacted by this story, Samaritans is a confidential emotional support service for anyone in the UK and Ireland. We talked to BestReviews nutrition expert, Molly Bremer, about her favorite whole grains and how to use them. But having witnessed that (note that nothing happened) I felt really sick. We are no longer accepting comments on this article. There are hundreds of ways you can kill yourself without involving the public. OMG! The ability to comment on our stories is a privilege, not a right, however, and that privilege may be withdrawn if it is abused or misused. Tel: +81 3 5829 5900 Key Highlights. Beaming Princess of Wales watches a young boy backflip during St David's Day Mike Tindall's latest money-making scheme! Still, I was always somehow conscious of the fact that there are better options. At those speeds there's going to be a mess. My friends husband died last year through suicide. 'After the birth of our second child, she relapsed and was admitted to hospital again. Your lack of compassion for someone who is obviously driven to the end of her wits psychologically for reasons none of us is privy to is staggering. This woman was obviously highly coordinated, had excellent timing and gymnastics ability. The main problem for most people that commit suicides in Japan is a prolong isolation and stress. A 28-year-old woman jumped in front of an approaching train at the Metro Rail Transit (MRT) Shaw Boulevard station in Mandaluyong City before noon yesterday. And even in death she's seen as a big fail by some here. Imagine being the train driver or his family after his shift; imagine being the poor JR staff who had to look at body parts stewn across the station; imagine being the passengers and emergency workers on the scene. Maybe we should ask ourselves how could we do that instead of pointing the finger? The law is illogical and wrong, because it can make you to use "super glue" ,so to speak, to join each family member together 24/7 for just having peace of mind. The woman jumped in front of a southbound A train at Rockaway Boulevard around 10 a.m., police said. There was no criminality. A young mother who was behind on her rent and bills gathered her three-year-old daughter in her arms and jumped in front of a train, an inquest has heard. US firms waiting in the wings read to pump 'billions Parents' fury as schools STILL won't tell them if they are closed tomorrow as teacher strikes continue. Mumbai: Woman commits suicide by jumping in front of a train. British Transport Police subsequently declared the deaths a suspicious incident. . A woman died after jumping in front of a Brooklyn-bound L train Friday night. When you are in a state of mind that jumping in front of a train is the best solution to your problems, you are in a very dark place indeed, and rational thought would be a struggle I'm guessing. There are organizations and individuals out there that are trying to deal with this societal problem, but I think it takes a very special type of person to be able to tackle this head-on. She took care.'. A woman along with her four-year-old daughter allegedly jumped in front of a goods train following a dispute in the family near Meva Nawada railway station of Sahaspur, police said on Saturday. before typing odd corny comments. A train fatally struck a woman after she jumped onto the tracks at Bay Parkway Station in Bensonhurst on Wednesday morning, police confirmed. Steve: you make some excellent points about the ones left behind. When do the clocks change in 2023? the person was sick of mind. Firefighters responded to the station around 5:45 p.m., and EMS pronounced the woman dead on the scene, officials told Patch. Describing the footage, Mr Wade said: 'She takes Melsadies hand and walks relatively slowly. Some say the most efficient way is to jump into an active volcano. A smile or even some expressed concern, verbal or not, can go a long ways to helping ease someone's state of mind and break down barriers; at the very least, it will provide a brief reprieve for a troubled soul. CCTV footage from the location shows a woman jumping in front of a moving train in Ghatkopar station in Mumbai. Based on the collateral damage you think was somehow purposely premeditated? Have it government regulated? 2-8-16 Higashi-Kanda It's quite possible there were no witnesses as this is a looong platform (it's my home station) and probably there weren't so many people waiting on it at 10am. Most of us are simply turned off or revulsed and have enough problems on our plate everyday without having to come up with extra strength to help others, expecially those with desperately deep needs. With a train you just stand on the platform and make that sudden, crucial decision to step or jump forward without anyone having the chance to stop you (unless you WANT to be stopped). The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. Cleo-summed it up best. But then, I think maybe people who do this are actually going for the effect - going out with a bang, so to speak. Nevertheless, that doesn't excuse the fact that Japan is in dire need of social support services, anywhere from distress centers for abused women or victims of rape to trauma counselling and psychiatric treatment. According to investigators, her body was hit by the front car and then propelled five meters, through the glass door of a station shop that was situated on the platform. Counseling is almost never heard of and even mentioning that you have a mental sickness is already a death sentence, people will shun you like the Ebola virus. while tragic, her act delayed thousands of people. Commenting on the CCTV footage of Ms Redmond, DS Rees said: Her behaviour, as a police officer watching, was not normal. DS Rees said: 'Leighane Redmond had several debts in several forms. While this might sound callous, the Narita Express (airport-bound ones anyway) is the worst train to jump in front of as far as ruining other people's days- I wonder how many people missed their flights because of this? 1) Trains are of course very common, and very frequent, and in the case of express trains very fast. It is terribly sad that the woman felt she had to end her life, and needless to say a horrible experience for the four people hit by her body. contact IPSO here, 2001-2023. This was perhaps because, in the back of my mind, I always knew help and support were available. But before that can even happen, the stigma in society of seeking help needs to be broken. There is something seriously wrong with a lot of peoples thinking here and i think you need to add a bit of humanity and empathy to your souls. The inquest heard how the 39-year-old had previously aborted a child - without her religious husband's knowledge - in 2012 after discovering the baby could be born with an abnormality as a side effect of her bipolar medication. Why, no, of course I'm not being sarcastic! This really involves picking her right up to the extent of leaning over. Perhaps you propose a fine be imposed? I am even more glad like i choose to work from home, never socialse anymore and just be with those who matter. Leighane Melsadie Redmond had been taken to court over unpaid bills, the inquest at Beaconsfield Coroners Court heard today (November 15). I doubt she thought that she would harm anybody else in the process, and it's wrong to assume she wanted to. A mother who was behind on her rent and bills cradled her three-year-old daughter in her arms and jumped" on to train tracks, where they were both killed, an inquest has heard. sadly it does. Cleo -- how dare you choose to lecture someone who is contemplating suicide? We should never condemn the mentally ill this way because it causes trouble to passengers etc. Suicide is complex, but without a doubt, there needs to be FAR more done here for mental illness. Terrible and selfish. Very useful skills indeed! For that you are lucky. At 3:17 p.m., at the Broadway and West 96th Street subway station, an unidentified woman jumped in front of a southbound 3 train in an apparent suicide, an NYPD spokesperson told WSR. Northbound 1 and 3 trains are bypassing 72nd Street. No one as far as I can see is accusing suicides in general or this woman in particular of being malevolent. 'It made me late for work' -type posts - Yes indeed. Everyone here is making very very good points - but then everyone here (I am presuming!) I find it utterly ridiculous that people call this woman "selfish" based on the fact that she somehow, in her morbidly depressed state of mind Selfish? She would have known this if she had been thinking about it previous to the act, but did it anyway. If you really think about it (which you CAN do if you really try) I don't believe that she went down onto the platform, lined up the shot like a pool player, made sure there were sufficient people in the shop, then jumped infront of the train but if your just Trolling, keep up the good work. My life is more complicated>. Shortly afterwards, the mother and daughter were seen to enter Taplow station from Approach Road, where they remained at the station for around 20 minutes. They also default on life insurance (which I think goes to the company, but not sure on that one). She was, probably as a result of her morbidly depressed state of mind thinking and acting selfishly, ie without thought of others. She may have lost everything. Personal Assistant for Older New Yorkers in Manhattan, Holy Uproar After Adams Decries Separation Of Church And State, 'People Will Die': FDNY Fire Chiefs Argue Demotions Endanger Public, Winter Storm Dumps Nearly 6 Inches Of Snow Over Parts Of NYC. 'When she was well, we never had confrontations, the only time we argued was when she didn't want to take her medication. 'I noticed a woman in a white jacket back away and start running across the platform.'. Remove the stigma and try to help society understand it is the same as any other illness, nothing to be ashamed of. Her life ,her decision, her responsibilityshe is (or was) an adult with full responsibility and legal rights for goodness sake! The eight-months pregnant woman bought herself a ticket before running across the platform and jumping in front of a non-stop intercity train which sped through the station at 115mph - instantly . i wish people who post here would Learn MORE about Japan What an awful person she was to do this with the aim of hurting others - mentally and as it turns out physically. NOT everything is easy. Let us support getting your first car loan here in Japan. 40.680481 -73.843731. Princess Diana's nieces Lady Eliza and Amelia share 'Appalled and sickened but not surprised at all': Fury of Covid families as WhatsApps 'show Matt Hancock Head over heels for Kate! As a subscriber, you are shown 80% less display advertising when reading our articles. What is wrong wih you people, did you grow up in the 19th century? Life is not just some inconvenience. And if you want to do something to help someone before they get in this desperate position, a little bit of kindness and understanding really helps. A big tsunami like Fukushima every year. The incident occurred as the train was pulling into the Lorimer Street station around 7:42 p.m., according to. Editors' Code of Practice. Bereaving families are not only stuck with a funeral, but a huge bill for the suicide. We should sop thinking so much about ourselves, ok we are late for work, but a fellow human has died, their shoudl be pity for the deceased and their family not bitterness and anger.Humanity needs a lot of improvement. Put up the fences and legalize suicide so people will go for a needle rather than a train. Sweater dresses are perfect for cooler weather, because theyre made of thicker fabric that can keep you warm even when the temperatures drop. So, after that experience I'm not so keen on excusing those people. Why, of course it is! I think they should think about others rather be self centered. MoriNoHogosha; very brave of you to come here and post how you feel.Suicide is seen by many as a dirty and nasty thing. It's very sad. OZONE PARK, Queens A woman was killed after she jumped in front of a train Friday morning, policesaid. Newsquest Media Group Ltd, Loudwater Mill, Station Road, High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire. Perhaps this is too 'clean' or 'romantic'. To be honest I think this choice of suicide is partly due to the 'normalcy' - it is a very common way that the next person might follow the same way regardless of why or whoever else gets pulled into it, but also it could be like giving a middle finger or a big **** all you to society, because it was society that let the person down?? She had to have felt some pain there. I saw this on the news this morning, and it was truly horrible. Very well said, I totally agree with you on this. , updated She died at the scene. There is a good deal of toing and froing.. ', 'I did not think she was suffering a relapse at the time although it did not occur to me. - Just nuts man!!! Ms Redmond was seen wrapped in a poncho, walking hand in hand with Melsadie, who was dressed in a little furry parker jacket and wearing a winter hat and gloves. A six-month-old baby boy died Friday after a woman jumped in front of an oncoming subway train at St. Clair West station. 25/10/2022. But also unlucky. Felicia Garcia, 15, was reportedly tormented by her peers at Tottenville High School, who teased her about sexual encounters with football players, police sources told the New York Daily News. It's going to get worse before it gets better. They don't realize how much of a mental block depression puts on a person. And quite frankly, here in Japan I have no idea at all how you would go about it. Her life these past months may have sheer hell for and/or family and she believed that this was the "honourable way out", as the Japanese people believe it to be. things will always get better especially if you change the way you live. I think I'd be sick to my stomach if I witnessed that. No, it doesn't happen everyday at all. . Cleo -- aecho11 says it all. Brooklyn, NY - A 43-year-old woman was killed when she jumped in front of a northbound C train at Nostrand Avenue and Fulton Street in Flatbush at around 10:20 p.m. on March 19. You know, the earthquakes, the rolling blackouts, the heat, etc. Stressful start to National Offer Day? Maybe J-goverment needs to import more U.S. and western Psycologist that is familar with the Japanese culture and approach from a different angle. The coroner heard how the religious pair met while they were both living in the Czech Republic, before separately travelling to America and reconnecting. 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